A Nigerian businesswoman, Anthonia Umerah, has stated that she would rather be single than be in a relationship with a man who is struggling.
She made this known while reacting to a post by one Ami Mimi, who said that pr0stitution begins when a woman feels she’s too beautiful to date a struggling man.
Anthonia, who owns a car, recalled her experience with an admirer who tried to shame and guilt trip her for saying she can’t date a man who doesn’t have a car.
She stated that just as men are vocal about their choices in women, she is also vocal about hers.
“Either beautiful or ug ly, everyone should. Choose the life they want for themselves. Na person wey never experience Whàt struggling means will say this n0nsense,” she wrote.
”Me for example….I prefer to be single than date or marry certain categories of men that will introduce me to their struggling lifestyle. Struggle your struggle alone bro! Don’t involve me.
I learnt to be very vocal about my choices from men. Men are very straight forward when it comes to their choices in woman.
Few days ago, I meant a new man…just few minutes into our conversation….he asked me why I am single and I told him it is my choice. I equally asked him and he started wailing that women he likes don’t like dating him be the does not have a car which is a l0w self esteem problem on his own part that he is yet to realize. The proceeded to ask me…”I hope you are not like other women who can’t date a man who doesn’t have a car”.
I’m certain he expected me to give him a pick-me response to massage his l0w self esteem and say I am not like them but I disappointed him and told him I am like them!
I don’t like men who trek. I love men who have their own car and men who are comfortable.
And that’s it! That was the end of our discussion. Don’t ask me s1lly low self esteem questions next time.
A man will be very strategic when choosing a woman but expect her not to have choices.
When a woman states her choices, she is labeled a pr0stitute and all sorts of other things. ”
